people don’t understand emotions. We all have them yet for some reason people assume that operate on a strict progression of cause and effect. But actually,from a non linear, non subjective view point there more of a big ball of desires, feelings, chemicals and neuron firings. We break them down into cause and effect so that we can attempt to process the reactions we get from others when we don’t like the outcome. When someone is happy, pleased with us or in love with us we don’t really ask why. People never question things that seem good Ever notice that?
A man can be many different things. He can be a hero, a lover, a wanderer, an adventurer, a father or grandfather. He has the potential to be them all. But he is also them all at once. He is only limited by what is needed for the current moment. The key is to not get stuck as just one of them and allow the others to show through when they are needed. That’s the best medicine I ever got from a doctor
Every time our heart feels good when we’re with someone , we want it to go on forever. We want time to stop and just have this feeling for the rest of eternity. But,When the other person doesn’t feel it or has stopped feeling it we are left with a few options; we can try to recapture that magic moment with them all over. And that may work and rekindle the flame a new. We can cling to the hope the person will feel the way we do about them. However this path can lead down dark winding roads of obsession, depression ,and most of all pain and sorrow. It can drive you mad ,and if you hope long enough it will eventually destroy you. So our third option is to move on. Not completely forget nor entirely cut ourselves off from this someone, just realize this isn’t the time. It’s not the moment or relationship we should be in at this point. If we don’t keep moving forward the story stops and we will never know how things could or will turn out for ourselves. We move on to keep ourselves going, to look for what we want. A happy ending
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There are things in this world we will never understand because either; “there complicated”, or we aren’t old enough or young enough for them to impact us in our current point in life. Sometimes, its because we haven’t lived through them ,and we don’t want to imagine ourselves having to; and sometimes we simply just don’t want to. The point is that even if we don’t understand something it doesn’t mean its wrong or that we should be bitter about it, and most importantly never give up on it. It means we use that gift of language we were all given to ask someone to “explain this to me”. Four very simple words can prevent so much hate, rage and damage. Is it really that hard to say them?